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I am going through a wiered situation -- I cant help my self so seeking for your help.

Hi am 23 year old boy from Kolkata,West bengal


still Stu+dying for higher degrees.


I have a girl friend.. she is 21 years of old. she is also in a college.
we met in social media.. though i know her personally from long time..but our chatting start with fb and whatsapp.. then after spending few months in chatting ..we became committed to serious relationship.
we also promised each other lots of times that we dont leave each other

(we both are happy about our looks.personality, family standard and mental connections)
she never finds any problem within me..
everything was going superbly..

we have completed 1.5 year of relationship.. though our communication is totally rely on whatsapp texting.. we get very less chance for phone calls and direct meeting..
because of her parents problem. but still i am happy with her.
whenever she get chances she called me.. we also have meeting in parks and cinema halls.. we also get intimated and done lots of things in real and also in
phone, video, calls, chats

she is very cute.. good looking ,sexy and also very open minded and frank too.

she got many hits from guys in facebook...but she accepts the request only from known ones and ignore many other messeges.
i have her password so i used to check regularly.. all her messeges..
i have seen that she always accept and tells to everybody that she is committed with me and she loves me very much..

after hearing such things i have observed two types of reactions from guys.
many guys stop respond and few guys still continued texting her.

she have may male friends.
classmates juniors seniors..
she openly chat with them..
she does all kind of chats sharing non veg jokes etc..


but from past 6 months she have changed her password but maybe she didn't click on logged out from all devices.. so i still have access over her account and she probably didn't knew that..

I have seen that she is attracted to a guy, one of her classmates..
first they used to do normal casual chats but as the days passed on their chats started to became vulgar and from sharing non veg jokes to dirty chats..
now they do regularly chats ... at afternoon and even at late night.
some times she even ignore my text.


she also enjoys those kinds of sex chats with him..
they do all kinds of stuffs in their chatting using abusive language to dirty stuffs.(mutual masturbation, sharing Gifs and pics)
she truly cooperate with him and also make him aroused with her dirty comments and wish.

she even shared her faceless naked selfie and private pics with him...
she also bunked her classes and went with him in bar ... and spent lots of times together in his flat .
( i have seen her pic in chats wearing sexy outfits)
which i get to know from their chats... and i have serious doubt they even done sex.


So i am just losing my mind......
i want to leave her...but i cant.. don't know why? may be i am get stucked over her and she really became my addiction...
i tried many times but its more killing..
she still text me normal like nothing is happening and still say that she will not leave me.. she loves me


I have tried to talk with her unintenstionally. though, i didnt told her that i have seen their chat.. but whenever i tried to talk to her about him.. she tells me that i am becoming possisive over her everybody needs freedom bla bla ,,,,
my mind always compelled me to think about her and feeling of getting her back
though we didn't breakup till now .. but its tooo hurting..
my biggest fear of losing her is.. i have to face lonliness.. after breakup..
There are also many questions going around my head
whether i will get another girl or not?
If i even got a new one? how many chances are there she will not do the same ..


these things are killing me from inside
though i am trying to make my self busy and trying to focus on different things like on my career but those thoughts are always there in my subconsciousness mind....


what to do now?
Breakup or NOT?

need suggestions

about both the consequences.
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Hi am 23 year old boy from Kolkata,West bengal


still Stu+dying for higher degrees.


I have a girl friend.. she is 21 years of old. she is also in a college.
we met in social media.. though i know her personally from long time..but our chatting start with fb and whatsapp.. then after spending few months in chatting ..we became committed to serious relationship.
we also promised each other lots of times that we dont leave each other

(we both are happy about our looks.personality, family standard and mental connections)
she never finds any problem within me..
everything was going superbly..

we have completed 1.5 year of relationship.. though our communication is totally rely on whatsapp texting.. we get very less chance for phone calls and direct meeting..
because of her parents problem. but still i am happy with her.
whenever she get chances she called me.. we also have meeting in parks and cinema halls.. we also get intimated and done lots of things in real and also in
phone, video, calls, chats

she is very cute.. good looking ,sexy and also very open minded and frank too.

she got many hits from guys in facebook...but she accepts the request only from known ones and ignore many other messeges.
i have her password so i used to check regularly.. all her messeges..
i have seen that she always accept and tells to everybody that she is committed with me and she loves me very much..

after hearing such things i have observed two types of reactions from guys.
many guys stop respond and few guys still continued texting her.

she have may male friends.
classmates juniors seniors..
she openly chat with them..
she does all kind of chats sharing non veg jokes etc..


but from past 6 months she have changed her password but maybe she didn't click on logged out from all devices.. so i still have access over her account and she probably didn't knew that..

I have seen that she is attracted to a guy, one of her classmates..
first they used to do normal casual chats but as the days passed on their chats started to became vulgar and from sharing non veg jokes to dirty chats..
now they do regularly chats ... at afternoon and even at late night.
some times she even ignore my text.


she also enjoys those kinds of sex chats with him..
they do all kinds of stuffs in their chatting using abusive language to dirty stuffs.(mutual masturbation, sharing Gifs and pics)
she truly cooperates him and also make him aroused with her dirty comments and wish.

she even shared her faceless selfie and pics with him...
she also bunked her classes and went with him in bar ... and spent lots of times together in his flat .
which i get to know from their chats... and i have serious doubt they even done sex.


So i am just losing my mind......
i want to leave her...but i cant.. don't know why? may be i am get stucked over her and she really became my addiction...
i tried many times but its more killing..
she still text me normal like nothing is happening and still say that she will not leave me.. she loves me


I have tried to talk with her unintenstionally. though, i didnt told her that i have seen their chat.. but whenever i tried to talk to her about him.. she tells me that i am becoming possisive over her everybody needs freedom bla bla ,,,,
my mind always compelled me to think about her and feeling of getting her back
though we didn't breakup till now .. but its tooo hurting..
my biggest fear of losing her is.. i have to face lonliness.. after breakup..
There are also many questions going around my head
whether i will get another girl or not?
If i even got a new one? how many chances are there she will not do the same ..


these things are killing me from inside
though i am trying to make my self busy and trying to focus on different things like on my career but those thoughts are always there in my subconsciousness mind....


what to do now?
Breakup or NOT?

need suggestions

about both the consequences.
Unless you have sissy feeling, you should drop he. there are many fish in pond to catch.

However, they youhave explained i do feel your are "SISSY" otherwise you know the asnwer is pretty clear.

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> though our communication is totally rely on whatsapp texting..



Maybe now is the time to tell her what you really think of her and what she mean's to you - face to face or in a hand written letter. It's easy for her to think you are just as shallow as all the other chancers on 'social media'... just had to do a similar thing with with my wifey of 24 years!


Stop texting and tell her what she means to you in a proper way! open-up. If she tell's you to get lost at least go down fighting..



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i cant able to concentrate on the otherthings in my life ... she is always present in my subconsious mind...
any guy will do breakup in this moment ..
then why i cant...
anything pulling me from back...

whenever i call her for meet she is saying that she cant manage...
but she is also not leaving me..
i tried blocking her... but i can't
imagine my life without her...
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i cant able to concentrate on the otherthings in my life ... she is always present in my subconsious mind...
any guy will do breakup in this moment ..
then why i cant...
anything pulling me from back...

whenever i call her for meet she is saying that she cant manage...
but she is also not leaving me..
i tried blocking her... but i can't
imagine my life without her...
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its not about any menhood thing i am very much active in sex and this kinds of stuffs... she never complain me for those thing... rather she used to call me naughty..

my fucking emotions stucked around her..though i know it could be toxic for me in later.
but still trying to find a way...
i am trying to getting out of this... by doing lots of other things... but still cannot able getout from this...
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You cannot forget her easily.You will rekt yourself...to the point of no return.
If you man up and break up with her..you will lose peaceful state of mind.


You have two options:

Let her do whatever she likes..
and try to attract her again..
by becoming awesome...and give her one chance to correct herself...
this girl is cheating you today.Tomorrow another girl might cheat you.This is hypergamy.

or

Find another girl side by side without breaking up with first girl secretely,flirt with her and let your girlfriend know you have a close female friend too later.

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You cannot forget her easily.You will rekt yourself...to the point of no return.
If you man up and break up with her..you will lose peaceful state of mind.


You have two options:

Let her do whatever she likes..
and try to attract her again..
by becoming awesome...and give her one chance to correct herself...
this girl is cheating you today.Tomorrow another girl might cheat you.This is hypergamy.

or

Find another girl side by side without breaking up with first girl secretely,flirt with her and let your girlfriend know you have a close female friend too later.
I feel that lady already know he is sissy and duality of his mind hence he is in this situation. He prolly will not be in this if he had clarity in mind.

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