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Hi Coolest Boyz,

Read through your message, and thought about replying back to you at the earliest, due the distressing end messaging saying that you felt like ending your life. That was disturbing for anyone to know what the other feels, so i thought of sharing a moment with you and take you out from any sort of mental disturbance you have ever had about porn addiction and their affect on our social life.

Life of a human, talk about orgins, living and future has been carefully developed like an art. All the answers one wants from life, such as concentration, financial settlement and independence along with good social life.

I urge everybody the same thing from my friends circle and people who have approached me in the past for sharing their thoughts. The reason reason for ups and downs in life, the success and failure of one, all is somewhere connected within you on a sub conscious level of your mind. Thoughts arise, it might be negative, or it might be stress relief by watching porn or talking to girls.

You need to read through the benefits of Not Masturbating and Not watching porn! It will change your life into wonders! You need to understand the way of living life, noone is asking you to curb talking to girls, but see the brighter side of how it can benefit you in your life altogether!

I and many have really reaped the benefits of it, I do not go talking about it, because many think its the secret of good life, I am least bothered to care about what others think, they may or may not accept this, but the ones who are succesful are living a good life!

OPEN YOUR EYES, GOOGLE ' Benefits of NO FAP'

I hope to see your reply as to how it brings good within you.

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Sorry , I read your valueble msg late. About FAP I have reduced the frequency, I always feel high in terms of testestorene. But still I am controlling it.

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Take religious path, whichever religion you belong to I don't know. Go to the temple/workship place regularly spent atleast an hour speaking to GOD, initially if you don't get any response, don't loose hope/faith. Keep trying..

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In 2017 I met a girl (20 year old), I thought to marry her. But she is short tempered, stubborn, and egoistic. So she doesnt value whatever I do for her. She likes me, but on silly argument she just ignores me, doesn't call for days to week. And then I loose my mind. Before this girl , I always ignored girls (who always valued me ) in past who liked me or loved me. But this time I am in love, and I get mad when she ignores me.





same things happening to me also bro even she is cheated on me i am also facing the same thing.... i cant move on from girls phone internet porn musturbation sex chat this are ruining my life...
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Take religious path, whichever religion you belong to I don't know. Go to the temple/workship place regularly spent atleast an hour speaking to GOD, initially if you don't get any response, don't loose hope/faith. Keep trying..



I'd stick to things that are real rather than deluding yourself as the realisation you are talking to yourself will only bring you further down later.

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Hi Friends,

I am in very worst phase of my life. Right now I am 31 year old. Well it might feel boring to you guys, but just read it once.

I was an average student in school. I was so introvert , and lack of confidence to talk to any girl of my class. Because I was so skinny, average looking face , ugly hair style. I was only good in few subjects like maths and computer subject. I passed my 10th board with just 55%, later I took admission in 12th cbse and failed. Then I passed thru UP 12th board and took admission in Engineering College. During this time I got a GF in 12th board to my 2nd year of college. But she cheated on me. And I couldn't focus on my study, and failed Btech exams. So I left the college and passed thru BBA by distance education (sikkim manipal). Again I got a GF in BBA. But this time we were in long distance relationship, and she got married to some USA guy.


But during these period I got better looks, muscular physique. So I start getting lots of request and approach by cute, beautiful girls like Wherever I go like I joined CAT coaching, Gym, Banking, SSC classes or facebook, instagram. Again I lost my focus from my goal and career. And wasted time in dating girls. Till now I dated 15 girls in 6-7 years.

I did my graduation (BBA) in 2013 , after that I never took admission for master degree. Govt job exams (i.e ssc, banking) were like excuse for me to not taking admission in MBA. I was like on top of the world because I was getting lots of attention by girls during these years (that I never got till my 12th class).

In 2017 I met a girl (25 year old), this time I thought to marry her. But she is short tempered, stubborn, and egoistic. So she doesnt value whatever I do for her. She likes me, but on silly argument she just ignores me, doesn't call for days to week. And then I loose my mind. Before this girl , I always ignored girls (who always valued me ) in past who liked me or loved me. But this time I am in love, and I get mad when she ignores me.

I tried not to talk to her for 6 month, But again we are talking, and again she started torturing me by ignoring me when we have fights or argument. I just feel to leave her. But now I am not getting attention like before by other girls, so I am stucked to this girl, and loosing self respect.

I want to move on completely from these women. I feel like I am obessessed with women and I always need a gf for talking and roaming. My friends always say to me, why cant u live without a girl ? Is having a GF necessary? I just try to avoid all connection for 1-2 week maximum and then again I feel to talk to any women from those past dated before.

One more problem I have, I keep watching girls on Instagram, tinder etc. I just keep scrolling for 1-2 hr. I daily masturbate 2-4 times a day by watching porn sites. I am not pervert, I have good female friends also. And I respect those girls as a frnd or brother.

Right now I am unemployed, and feel to kill myself. I can't focus on any Govt Exams (ssc, upsc) because of GIRLS AND INTERNET, smartphone, porn sites. I have started feeling lonely now.

What should I do ? 😐



U r getting a lot of advice.

Know yourself first..... Feeling that you have been too obsessed with porn and wiman and gadgets shows you are trying to understand and respond to yourself.

Nothing wrong with any if this if in control. Evidently you think it is not in control.



Getting set in life and becoming a routine guy with a job and money etc is normal. Thats a safety net.... But that can stifle and bore you. You have been looking around fir variety and spice and now you dont seem to attract them. Hence you try to stick to what you got.

This girl is obviously using u.



Find a strong goal and mission. It must be motivation that drives you ans inspired more than all these bling bling diversions. Maybe develop a hobby or pastime... If u do sport like running or cycling spend more time on it. Keep fit as well as break away from the addictive porn and babe watching etc. If you do social activities adopt some mission. Spend time and effort with a different activity and if you like it and motivated by it then you will move away from distractions.

Think carefully prioritize and choose for your own life.
For a man of substance the real woman will come to. Another friend tols about developinh caring and all that. Quite right... After all the sucks and fucks a woman needs is a man who she can lean on.... Depend and cares for her. Thats when she will open her real passion and heart. Else shes just opening her legs and getting momentary needs filled. That is same foe you..... Else you would not need to jerk off 4 times a day.



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In 2017 I met a girl (20 year old), I thought to marry her. But she is short tempered, stubborn, and egoistic. So she doesnt value whatever I do for her. She likes me, but on silly argument she just ignores me, doesn't call for days to week. And then I loose my mind. Before this girl , I always ignored girls (who always valued me ) in past who liked me or loved me. But this time I am in love, and I get mad when she ignores me.





same things happening to me also bro even she is cheated on me i am also facing the same thing.... i cant move on from girls phone internet porn musturbation sex chat this are ruining my life...
Don't ever be with a girl of what you described, they are nothing but a bad phase in your life. Your mind is fragile, but at the same time powerful enough to overcome any situation, which might be giving you any harm, just push yourself towards positive thoughts.

Indulge in not masturbating, it is not tough, the urge will die out in 30 days or so, if it is uncontrollable, it is okay to release the tension, but doesn't mean you relapse onto it. You should rather make yourself available for various other girls, who are looking out for a like minded friend, and a lover, So don't confine yourself into the darkness my friend. Life is easy.

The more you are alone, the influence of porn gets you depression along. Get out and enjoy this world! We all are for time visitors till we move to the higher consciousness.

And yeah I am not some person to give advices, I have done things myself, but having control is the key to life.

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