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Optimism in work place

I often feel i am very much inferior than my peers in a closed meeting. I always have some fear in my mind that what others will think if I say something. How to overcome these sorts of things in work place.?

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On the contrary in today's work environment ( I am from an IT org ) from a starters perspective, you must work with your eyes shut, your mouth closed and your ears filled with molten tar. That is how you can survive in the industry.

Say something youre screwed. Dont say something, youre screwed again. You might have fire hydrants and card swapping cubicle spaces but its still "Yes sir, hello sir, how are the kids sir, lets have a pizza party sir" environment.

Now that I am off my soapbox, just be yourself. If you have problem with your communication the only way is to jump in the fire. At most you'll get corrected, which is a sign that atleast now you know where you were wrong.

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I often feel i am very much inferior than my peers in a closed meeting. I always have some fear in my mind that what others will think if I say something. How to overcome these sorts of things in work place.?
Firstly, you feel that you are inferior.

But this is not inferiority complex. You are just being modest & humble. You simply think what you are doing at workplace is just normal. You would have done some gr8 achievements but you just think it is normal.

Everyone have their own strengths and weakness. You know your workplace well and the kind of business they do. So in the peer meeting you are not going to give an entirely useless idea which will make others laugh at you. At most your idea may not be the best. Thats all. But it will definately be usefull in some forms.

So next time dont worry about what others might think. Just be confident of your suggestion. Then speak out and show your confidence in your speach. If your idea is gr8 but if you are not confident, it will be rejected. So confidence is the most important thing. Build it. It comes with experience.
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Imagine everyone in the room are fools and you alone know what to talk. This will tremendously boost your self-confidence. This is the suggestion given by Bernard Shaw.

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